stupid reminders

I just had a very upsetting experience.

I logged in to my AOL mail for the first time in at least a year, and in my inbox was a reminder for my grandfather's birthday coming up in 14 days. My grandfather passed away 2 years ago and I guess I never changed the reminders (because I don't really use AOL anymore). Just seeing the reminder in my mailbox is really unpleasant. He would've been 87 this year.

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